
| Issue: | 23,2003 | Page: |
6-9 |
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Abstract: |
The impact on families of
having fathers in prison |
| Keywords: | Fathers, families, children, prison, legal system |
Along
with the US and Australia, New Zealand has one of the highest rates of
imprisonment in the world. At any one time there are at least 2000 dads
and
3000 children forcibly separated from each other by the justice system.
With a
groundswell of public opinion that calls for longer and tougher prison
terms,
even more kids are likely to lose their dads to the world behind bars
in
future.
Chris
Corlett
investigated what it all means, and
whether we should even worry about fathers that are scoundrels.
There are
approximately six thousand people in prison in New Zealand today.
Nearly all of
them(ninety six percent) are men and of these, over one in three were
living
with at least one dependent child prior to being imprisoned. Eleven
percent of
them were living with three children or more.
At any one time in New Zealand,
there at least two thousand dads, and three
thousand children, forcibly separated from each other by the criminal
justice
system. And this figure is rising. Over the past five years, the prison
population has grown at a rate of over five percent, and is forecast to
continue to grow over the next ten years at least three percent.
Unfortunately these statistics,
published by the Department for
Corrections, take no account of those prison inmates who didn't live
with their
children prior to sentencing, but still play an important role in their
lives
through regular contact. It would probably not be exaggerating to
suggest that
these figures are only the tip of the iceberg. In one region of the United States it was found that nearly
two thirds of prison inmates were also fathers. It is probable that
,likewise,
the numbers of prison inmates in New Zealand who are also fathers are
in the
majority.
This makes grim reading for
anyone who recognises the importance of
fatherhood in respect of raising well adjusted children. There are an
awful lot
of children who are being prevented from being with their dads by the
system.
The emotional aspects of this
situation are heart breaking enough. But the
sadness of family separation is not the only issue. Equally
significantly,
there is clear evidence that children whose fathers have been in prison
are
more likely to end up in jail themselves somewhere along the line.
Whether to
become a criminal and expose oneself to the possibility of a prison
sentence is
not simply a matter of choice. There are many factors at play;
economic,
cultural and, especially, social.
People become criminals because
it's the only way they know. And perhaps
the key factor in the shaping of a criminal personality is an
offender's own
upbringing. One North American study reported that children with an
incarcerated parent are four times more likely to become convicted
criminals
themselves than children from the same socio-economic background but
with
parents at home. British research found that fifty nine percent of boys
with a
convicted parent go on to be convicted themselves by the age of thirty
two.
It's a vicious cycle: the more men we send to prison, the more
criminals we are
potentially creating.
It seems obvious that somehow
we have got to break this chain. The solution
is not as simple as ceasing to imprison anyone who happens to be a
father. Each
prisoner is in prison due to a particular and unique set of
circumstances. No
doubt there are many in prison that ought not to be there, either
because the
punishment doesn't fit the crime, or because they pose no continuing
threat to
society.
But there are also many
who
should. Prisons are sometimes a necessary evil; it's right that society
should
be able to protect itself from people who pose a threat to others.
Which
creates the situation where, in the short term, potential victims are
rightly
protected, but where, in the long term, more
offenders are being created. It's a Catch 22 in every sense. How do we
protect
society from criminal acts, and at the same time break the chain of
intergenerational offending?
Perhaps
not surprisingly, research
into the issues raised by the imprisonment of fathers has been sparse.
There
has been considerable research into the issue of imprisoned mothers,
but
fathers have been largely ignored, which seems to support the
prevailing view
that mothers are the only significant caregivers in a family, with
fathers
playing a secondary role.
Prior to
the 1999 General Election, Father
& Child spoke to the
mainstream political parties and posed a number of policy-related
questions in
relation to fathering. In respect of the issue of fathers who are in
prison,
Labour claimed to be unhappy with the provisions for imprisoned fathers
which
were in place at that time, and asserted that family centres attached
to
prisons would be a good idea. The Alliance Party recognised that "the
environment in which children have to visit their father is not
conducive to
good relationships and this needs to be addressed".
The
current government is obviously
aware of the issues. But there is precious little evidence that
anything is
being done about it. The family centres have not eventuated. There are
not even
specific times at which children can visit their fathers, other than
the
ordinary visiting times.
For
families, where Dad is in prison,
a number of emotional and practical problems arise as a result. In
general,
there is the financial burden caused by the removal of one source of
income,
and frequently the main one. This may be exacerbated by the reduced
opportunity
for the remaining caregiver to be able to work, because of the time and
effort
required to be a single parent. Imprisoned dads also report
considerable
anxiety caused by worrying whether his family, on the outside, is
coping with
his absence.
Then
there is the issue of shame an
inmate may experience, both for the reason that he finds himself in
prison and
also for the fact that he is not there for his family, and has let them
down.
All of the above may be compounded by the lack of resources and
finances
available to a prisoner, making it difficult to afford to send presents
and
cards, or make phone calls.
At
present, children can only visit
their dads during ordinary prison visiting times (unless there is a
specific
reason). This means that such visits take place in communal areas of
the prison
along with other visitors.
One
prison staff member reported that
all manner of activities can take place during such visits, including
open
sexual acts and exchange of illicit substances. This cannot be an
appropriate
setting for children to visit their fathers, even if such occurrences
are rare.
One father, now released, said that, during his prison sentence, he was
reluctant for his children to visit him in prison exactly because of
such
occurrences.
Children
face particular problems in
trying to cope with their father's absence. Not the least is the issue
of
stigma. Even children whose fathers have died are frequently presented
with a
positive image of him, which provides support and comfort. But the
children of
imprisoned fathers suffer shame and damaged self-esteem because of
where their
Dad is and why he is there. Some children are bullied or ostracised by
their
peers because of it. Many more are ashamed to talk about or mention
their dad
because of it.
Prisoners' children
may also be
reluctant to talk about their Dad for fear of appearing needy or weak,
or of
upsetting mum.
And they
may be lied to about their
fathers' absence or circumstances, which may lead them to destructive
fantasies
and mistrust towards those who have lied to them, perhaps even the
father
himself as well as other close family members.
What's
more, a study in the United
Kingdom reported that thirty percent of prisoners' children have
significant
health problems. This compares to ten percent of children in the
general
population.
What is
being done about it?
Knowing
that having dad in prison is
not good for children, it would make sense to place greater emphasis on
ensuring that a prison sentence is the appropriate way to deal with an
offender
who is also a father. The Sentencing Act 2002 states that "in
sentencing
or dealing with an offender the court must take into account an
offender's
personal, family, or whanau background when imposing a sentence with a
partly
or wholly rehabilitative purpose".
This
would seem to indicate that,
except where sentences of preventative detention are being imposed,
courts have
a duty to consider the effects on an inmate's children that a custodial
sentence would have. Whether courts do take such factors into consideration
is doubtful. If they did, why are more and more fathers being sent to
prison?
Adrienne
Burgess, author of
"Fatherhood Reclaimed" and one of the world's leading experts on
policy issues for fathers, puts it like this:"The father, whether
absent
or present, has powerful meaning to every child. We must accept the
substantial
relationships many children have with their imprisoned fathers and the
support
Dad previously provided. These are the first steps to incarcerating
fathers
only "in extremis". To providing partners with replacement support,
and to educating parents about handling children's feelings and
questions."
Home
detention is one alternative to
prison, which was introduced in New Zealand in 1999. Sentencing judges
may
allow offenders sentenced to two years or less to apply to serve their
sentence
this way. Eligible offenders are supervised through electronic and
physical
surveillance. One of its aims, aside from the obvious cut in the costs
of
imprisonment, is to "provide an alternative to imprisonment for
offenders
with special needs, including those with young children, and to assist
such
offenders to maintain family relationships and responsibilities."
The
Department for Corrections
certainly recognises the need for contact between imprisoned Dads and
their
families. The Public Prison Service National Policy Standard states
that
"if it does not pose a threat to the safety of the public [...], every
inmate must be encouraged and assisted to maintain or establish
relationships
with their family/whanau [...] to assist their wellbeing, and to
promote the
inmate's effective reintegration into society".
There
are some positive programmes
taking place in New Zealand prison's to address some of these issues.
The
Department for Corrections offers a Parenting Skills Course to inmates,
who are
caregivers to children under the age of sixteen. The course involves 32
hours
of course time over a four week period, and addresses all aspects of
parenting,
including matters of routine care: feeding, clothing, illness etc. It
also
offers advice on where to seek help with parenting in the community.
The
course considers how the
relationship between a child's parents can impact upon the child, and
issues
surrounding the self-esteem of children. At present there are 21 such
courses
being run throughout New Zealand prisons, and sometimes attendance is
made
mandatory as a parole condition.
In
addition to programmes run within
the prison setting, welfare organisations provide valuable support and
assistance to inmates and their families. The Prisoner Aid and
Rehabilitation
Service (PARS) assists family members to visit inmates, and Prison
Inmates
Loved Ones Linked As One to Renew Strength (better known as PILLARS)
runs a
scheme called Te Atea (Challenge to Change), which aims to reduce
reoffending
within families.
These
are all positive initiatives;
however they do not address the important issue of visiting places and
times. Another UK study found that
children respond far more positively to their dads' situations when
there are
specific facilities available for when they visit. More family visiting
centres
should be built, and fathers need specific and separate times and
opportunities
to see their children.
The
Department for Corrections informs
Father
and Child that it is progressively updating or
replacing older
visiting facilities. It states that there are visiting facilities for
families
at all prison sites, though they “vary in age and amenity”. At present,
as far
as Father and
Child has been able to ascertain, family
visits take place at the same time as ordinary visits, in the same main
areas.
However, new prisons, such as the facility
currently under construction in Northland, are to have purpose built
family
visiting areas. Furthermore, a number of older prison facilities have
had new
facilities added. The Department acknowledges that the goal of visiting
areas
is to create a better environment, with less obtrusive surveillance,
and
improved play areas for children.
The
imprisonment of fathers, and the
subsequent effect on their children, is a complex and emotional
problem, and
there is no easy solution to it. There are encouraging signs that the
criminal
justice system, along with attitudes of society in general, is moving
in the
right direction. But on the other had there is no sign that
intergenerational
crime rates are falling.
Perhaps
what is needed is more
commitment to addressing the problem - and more spending. Greater
recognition
of an offender's fatherhood should occur during the sentencing process,
and
more use should be made of non-custodial options.
Dr
Catherine Dennison, writing in the
UK, sums the situation up. "For young men fathering a child is
something
they are proud of, it makes them feel they achieved something. Becoming
a
father can prove to be an opportunity to rethink the direction of their
lives.
[...] The challenge for policy makers and practitioners is, therefore,
to
encourage and enable these young fathers to have positive input into
their
child's life."
Helping
children to turn away from
crime may take effort, persistence and money. But it would be worth it,
for the
wellbeing and happiness of us all. What better investment could we make?
Thanks to Paul
Monk,
Regional Manager of
the South Island Prison Service for information provided.
Next
issue:
prison dads talk about their kids.